Whether you're just getting to know someone or you've been together for years, Shanghai has something for everyone. With its blend of modern charm and hidden gems, the city offers countless ways to connect over great food, fun activities, or quiet moments. Whether you're into relaxed vibes, adventurous outings, or gourmet dining, there’s no shortage of date ideas. Here’s my guide to some of the best spots to take your date while living in or visiting Shanghai.

1. Relaxed Vibes at a Park

2. Cafés and Gelatos Around FFC and Jing’an

3. Suzhou Creek/West Bund Walk or Bike Ride

For the more active couple, why not grab a couple of shared bikes and ride along Suzhou Creek or West Bund? It’s a scenic route that gives you plenty of time to enjoy the views. If you choose the Suzhou Creek route You can finish your ride with a drink at Rooster or the laid-back vibe of Beer Lady. If you choose the West Bund route, you can select either Tianzifang (Dapuqiao) or Former French Conccession to carry the night on.

Perfect for A casual, sporty date with a fun twist.

Insider tip: Plan your ride around sunset to enjoy the best views along the creek.

4. Dinner and Drinks at Shankangli area

5. Art Meets Dinner: Fotografiska+MONA / MAP + Roof P.M.

Want to do something similar but on Monday? Head to Museum of Art Pudong (MAP) in Lujiazui Pudong, and the modern fine dining restaurant on the bund with a stunning view of the bund is something you may want to do for a special occasion to please your date/partner/significant partner etc.

Perfect for: A creative, artsy couple who appreciates fine food and great conversation.

Insider tip: Make sure to check the museum’s current exhibitions beforehand to pick something that will spark conversation.

6. Joy City Ferris Wheel Date

7. Cozy Up at Jiletang (Gokurakuyu) Hot Springs

When the weather turns colder, there’s nothing quite like taking your date to a cozy hot spring. Jiletang Hotspring in Putuo is one of those fancy public bath houses where you can lounge, chat, and even play game consoles while enjoying the warmth. It’s a great way to unwind and have a more intimate date without too many distractions. These places make you feel like kings and queens and are just so relaxing.

Perfect for: A relaxed, intimate date where you can focus on connecting. Those who want to try Bathhouses don’t mind mild same-sex nudity in the bathhouses.

Insider tip: No need to bring anything. It has mostly everything. Men and Women are separated in the spa area; after you finish your bath, you will be given a copy pyjama/kimono/uniform, and you can hang out at the common area where free-flow non-alcoholic beverages and fruits are available; restaurant and massage services within the venue are at additional cost for most of them.

8. Arcade Fun at Cages Sports Bar

If you’re still testing the waters or want a more laid-back vibe, Cages is a great spot for some low-pressure fun. Play arcade games, grab a meal, and enjoy some drinks in a lively, unpretentious atmosphere. It’s perfect if you want to keep things casual while still having a great time.

Perfect for: First dates where you want to keep things light and fun.

Insider tip: Show your competitive side with some arcade games or hit the batting cages if you feel sporty! If you order food there, Monday night is all-you-can-play. Other daily deals, such as wings nights on Tuesday or pizza nights on Thursday, are also worth checking out. The place can be crowded during major sports events like the World Cup Final, Formula 1, Premier League, and others.

9. Daning Park and Cinema Date

If you’re around the newer part of Jing’an, particularly Daning Park, this area has plenty of great options for a relaxed date. Start with a stroll through the park and then head to Jiuguang Mall, where you’ll find an IMAX cinema for a movie date. After the movie, there are plenty of great food choices nearby, making it a perfect all-in-one date.

Perfect for: A classic date night with entertainment and good food night out.

Insider tip: Try booking a movie time that lets you catch a meal before or after, as Jiuguang Mall has a range of excellent food choices, from quick bites to sit-down meals.

10. Hongkou Area: North Bund, Sinar Mars & The Pearl

Hongkou district has undergone many transformations in the past decade; the North Bund Park, right opposite the Sinar Mars Complex, is an excellent location for a date. It is spacious and has a beautiful view of Lujiazui. There is also a Magic Jungle Rope course that adults can also participate in, while Sinar Mars is also a great mall to hang out at. The W Hotel Terrace is definitely my favourite spot to have a date, get a drink, and enjoy the view from the terrace. Another favourite thing I love doing is going to the Pearl to enjoy some of the BEST live performances. You can follow them on their WeChat official account to view their monthly calendar, buy tickets directly on their WeChat miniprogram, and pick a show from a great variety that you both are interested in enjoying the show with your love!

Perfect for: Live Music lovers, Romantic lovers.

Insider tip: Try booking a movie time that lets you catch a meal before or after, as Jiuguang Mall has a range of excellent food choices, from quick bites to sit-down meals.

Final Thoughts

Shanghai caters to all kinds of date ideas—whether you're after a romantic dinner, a fun night out, or a quiet moment to relax. The key is to pick something that reflects your vibe as a couple and enjoy exploring this vibrant city together. There’s always something new to discover.

So, what’s your favorite Shanghai date spot? Leave a comment below and let me know if I missed any hidden gems!